A blue dude in a red state or a red dude in a blue state. The familiar “my vote doesn’t count” mantra. Just because your candidate may not win does not mean that your vote didn’t count.
The system is built on what the majority decides. It is set up that way so that vocal minorities don’t force the country in a direction most people aren’t comfortable going.
We don’t all agree all the time on the direction we want to proceed. That’s why we have elections every four years. If the minority is sufficiently persuasive they can convince some of the majority to change their minds and change to the direction desired by the (previously) minority.
We tend to live in the short term. When we are on the losing side of things we tend to forget the times when things went our way and vice versa. If you feel you are always on the losing side, well…perhaps your views aren’t as mainstream as you think they are. Everyone thinks they are mainstream. We surround ourselves with friends who agree with us because it’s comfortable to not have your beliefs challenged every day. I do it, you do it, we all do it. It’s human nature. We have to remind ourselves that living in echo chambers isn’t a fair representation of the broader world. We have to work to expose ourselves to ideas outside of our groupthink. Make up our own minds about the issues of the day, not just taking the word of the news, the pundits, our friends, our enemies. Truth is mutable and you won’t find it cut from whole cloth in any one location. You have to put the puzzle together for yourself and not simply shave off the edges to make the picture you are comfortable seeing.
Attitudes change in cycles. The country goes through periods when it is more conservative or more liberal. Generations grow up determined to not be like their parents and thus things change.
So again, if your candidate doesn’t win tomorrow that doesn’t mean your vote didn’t count. Just because you didn’t get your way this time doesn’t mean that your vote is pointless. You count as a member of the opposition to the majority. Make a convincing case for your preferences and perhaps you will find yourself in the position of being in the majority when the lake next turns over.
Go vote. There are people in other countries risking death to do what you can do either completely unencumbered or for simply the price of showing a photo ID – the same thing you have to do to use a credit card or write a check.
It’s completely shameful that people in this country don’t vote because they feel their vote won’t count if they don’t win. The overall turnout for an election is shameful. We need to be sure we exercise our Constitutionally protected right lest it be taken from us without us even noticing.